Just a Few Things I'm Thankful For

Well it's that time of year again. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you. I have so many things to be thankful for. I know I won't get them all, but here are ten of the things I'm grateful for and they aren't in any particular order.

10. I'm thankful for doctors. Just earlier this week, I fell and I hurt my thumb really bad. I thought that it would be one of those things where it hurts for a little bit and then it would be fine. Well it hurt for the rest of the day and when I woke up the next morning it was still hurting and it was really swollen. I still didn't think too much about it. My mom took me to the doctor yesterday and well my thumb actually is fractured. Hahaha. So they put me in a splint (which is making it difficult  to type this). I have needed doctors a lot in my lifetime and I know I'll need them for the rest of my life. I'm so glad that they do what they do to help out such a clumsy girl like myself. All you doctors, nurses or anyone in the medical field...I thank you!!!

9. I'm so grateful for my school teachers! I seriously can't thank you all enough! You all have played a big part of who I am today. I still remember my kindergarten teacher and sitting on the rug, or feeding Mr. Goldie. I remember each one of my teachers because they all have impacted my life in some big way. I especially want to thank my old history teachers, Mr. Felix and Mr. Willey. You both changed my view of the world. I also want to thank my old french teachers Mr. Rocque and Ms. Peterson. You both are crazy french teachers but you put up with me haha so thanks! All of my English teachers, Mrs. Larson, Mr. Rich, Ms. Schlosser, Mrs. Sadleir-Holly and Mr. Andrus. You all have helped me so much!!! I want to thank Mr. Young who was my ballroom teacher for two years as well as my biology teacher my sophomore year. You were such a great teacher and taught me so much! Thank you and I miss you! My dance teacher and my ballroom coach, Mrs. Davis and Mrs. Baugh. You guy are amazing and I'm grateful for both of you. Thank you for always challenging me. Thank you Mrs. Robinson for everything! I loved your classes and I loved having you as my teacher for two years! Mr. Fong, I'd like to thank you as well. I haven't had you long, but thank you for always trying to help me out! You're great! There are lots of other school teachers that have meant a lot to me. Thank you to all of those educating people, you are making a difference!

8. These two have not only been my teacher, but they have also been my directors. I want to thank Mr. Criman and Mr. Oquendo. They have done so much for me and constantly challenge me. I have grown so much because of them! I have known Oquendo for about five years now and he has helped me learn so much. Because of him I've been able to learn a little about tech, have the opportunity of being a student assistant director and an assistant choreographer, been able to help out with different types of musicals and shows and many other things! He's not only a teacher or director, he's an amazing friend and has been like a father in my life! Criman has taught me soooo much as well. Because of him, I have been able to be a part of different types of productions. Through these productions, I have been taught a lot. I'm so excited to continue to learn as we work on our senior play. Thank you Criman and Oquendo. You both are spectacular!

7. I'm so grateful for seminary teachers!!! I can't tell you how much all my seminary teachers have meant to me. Each one of you hold a special place in my heart! I love each and every one of you. You guys have been there for me through everything! Sis. Watson, I remember how you took me out of class one day because I was having a really hard time dealing with the loss of a friend and you talked with me about it and made me feel better. Thank you so much! You are so great! Bro. Moore. Man, you are incredible! I can't thank you enough for all you have done. Whenever I'm in need of a blessing, you are always so willing and I can't tell you how much that means to me! Bro. Griffiths, your class changed my life. I can't thank you enough. I'm still really embarrassed the last time I saw you hahaha. Thank you for teaching me and for showing you truly do care. I hope you are loving your new job! Thank you! And to all my other seminary teachers, don't think I didn't get anything from you. I did. I promise! I have journals full of all that you have taught me. Thank you, all of you, for being such amazing teachers. I have loved all of your classes. :)

6. I can't tell you how much I am grateful for all of my young women leaders. You guys have all blessed my life. Being in young womens hasn't always been easy for me, but I knew because of my leaders that I was always loved and cared for. You guys taught me so much! I would not be the girl I am today if it weren't for all of you! I still remember both of the Tiffany's haha. You both were so great! I remember my old young women leaders before the ward split, you guys were so amazing and really changed my life. And the leaders I have now, you guys are incredible and I have such great bonds with each of you. I'm so glad I have leaders I can go to and just talk about anything and everything. I love you guys! I want to thank all of the young women leaders I have had in my life!

5. I'm so grateful for the Stott family! Ellie was one of my young women leaders as well, but I also have a special bond with her and her family. I can't tell you how much you guys mean to me! I miss you guys so much and I can't wait to see you guys! Ellie and Steve, you guys taught me a lot and your the kindness you shared with me, I can't thank you enough for that. I remember trying steak for the first time with you guys hahaha. Lily was a delight and I love that girl! She always made my day whenever I watched her. Sometimes, I'd go over to babysit and I didn't have the best day, but she always made me happy and turned my day around. Your family is amazing and I want to thank you for all you have taught me and for always being there for me!

4. I'm thankful for my family! I have the best sisters in the world and I love them all to death. We may fight, but I would do anything for them! They are amazing. My family has seen me at my worst and yet they still treat me the same. My family is forever and I couldn't have asked for a better one. They are the ones that have taught me the most. I wouldn't be who I am if I didn't have these guys as my family. I love you guys! Thanks for all of the adventures we've had. I know there are plenty more. I'm so grateful to spend this holiday with you all again! Thank you for everything!

3. All of my friends have taught me so much and really there aren't words to tell you how thankful I am for each of you! You guys have stuck with me through pretty much everything, even when I make mistakes. At times, I feel like I don't deserve such great and amazing friends like all of you! Shaina, you seriously have been there for me so much in the few years that I have known you. It all started with Children of Eden. Thank you for being so understanding and for always being there. Jeff, I can't thank you enough. We may see differently, but you are still an amazing friend. You were there for me through all my crazy boy drama at the end of last year and you are always so honest to me about my different situations. I've needed a friend like you! Dante, boy you are amazing! You always make me feel so great and you always care so much about me and about others. Thank you for always being there to listen. Sydney! Girl, I love ya! You have always been a big part of my life and I can't thank you enough for everything! Seriously! You've been through it all with me! Halle, my bestie! Girl I miss you! You are such an amazing friend. You are pretty much my twin girl! You have been there for me through a lot and I don't know what I'd do without ya girl! Thank you soooo much!!! Sariah, you are such a sweetheart. You are such a great friend. Even when you didn't agree with some boys, you were always still really supportive and still an amazing friend! You have stuck with me and I can't thank you enough! Mandy Butler, girl! Love ya to death! I have been so blessed to have a friend like you! You help me with pretty much everything!!! Thanks girl! Andrew, man seriously there aren't words to tell you how grateful I am for you! You are always there for me, always willing to listen. You have helped me with so much, including making flashcards for me. I owe you so much!!! Thank you for everything! I don't know what I'd do without you! Kyle Criman, you are a great guy and I want to thank you for always making sure I'm okay and always making me smile! You are incredible! There are soooo many more of you I could thank. I have been so blessed with having such amazing friends. Ones that stick by me through everything, ones that always make sure I'm okay. I love you all!!! Thank you for everything!!!

2. I'm so grateful for the gospel in my life. I honestly don't know where or who I'd be without me. It has taught me so much! With that I'm thankful for my father in heaven and my brother Jesus Christ. I have a testimony that they live. I know prayers are answered because I have had many of mine answered. I love this gospel. I'm grateful for all the opportunities it gives me and for all the blessings I have been given because of it! There honestly aren't words to say how much this gospel has changed my life.

1. This may sound odd, but I am so thankful for all my trials. Without them, I would be nothing. I've been through a lot, and I know I have more trials to come. I know the ones I am going through right now are for the best. They will help shape me into a better daughter of God. As weird as it sounds, I'm thankful for all the bad things I've dealt with. I know it's all for my benefit. I'm thankful that God trusts me enough to give me the trials he does. I'm glad that I have somebody who is cutting me back, all for my own benefit, even when I fight him. I love my Heavenly Father, and I love that I have been made stronger through all my hardships. I willing to embrace any trial he gives me, no matter how hard it gets...because I know He will be there and He has given me everything I need to get through it. Thank you, for giving me tribulations.

Happy Thanksgiving guys! I hope you all think of those people that have blessed your life. We should be living every day in Thanksgiving. You all are amazing and I know you all have made a  difference in somebody's life. Have an amazing Thanksgiving this year!
-Alissa Lopez

It's Time For My Story

There comes a time when you just have to stop holding everything in. This is that time. I'm sorry for those I may hurt in this. I'm not going to name you out, because I don't want your reputation to be ruined because of this. I just need to get this out, and I need people to understand and hear my side of the story.

I don't really know where to start. So much has happened these past couple of months. I have been torn to pieces in ways people didn't even realize. So, I'm sorry if you feel like I'm just being a complaining, dramatic teenager. That's not what I'm trying to do. I'm just trying to finally get my side of the story out in the open. I haven't been able to explain anything, because nobody will give me the chance to say what's really going on according to me. It's made me feel like my feelings, don't even matter. And you know what, maybe they don't to you, but they do to me. I'm tired of getting hurt and I'm ready to finally speak out. So this is my story.

I want to start with my family. I love my family but like all families, we aren't perfect. My older sister has been on a mission for my church for the past year and a half almost. She and I didn't get along when we were little but we started to get really close before she had left. She has always been the bridge between me and my mom since my mom and I don't get along that well. It has been the hardest thing not having her around this past year. I love her so much and she was the one that helped me through my sophomore year of high school. It was really hard to go through junior year without her around and part of my senior year as well. I have gone through so many things that I wish she could have helped me with. Not only that, but I wish she could have been there for me for all my shows last year and I wish she had seen my dance I had choreographed this year and the show I was in earlier this year. I can't wait for her to be home again. Only less than a week left and it seems too long still. I'm so happy that she will be able to see the show I'm currently in. I just can't wait for when we are able to just go for a drive and just talk. I have missed those drives more than anything.

Something else that has been happening within my family lately....as many of you all know, my mom remarried a few years back. Well we have had my step dad's mom living with us, which has been a challenge since she only speaks Spanish. Also a couple of months (I believe it's closer to a month) ago, my step dad's son (my step brother) came to Utah from Mississippi. Him and his wife and their son (who is under the age of 3) are living in our living room until they find a place to live. This has been really hard on me. People don't understand that I don't feel comfortable with my step dad's family. So I have been living in my room this whole time. When I get home, I go straight to my room and I hardly ever come out. Or I don't get home until about 8, 9 or even 10 at night...on purpose. I'm tired of living like this. Even though I'll be able to move out soon, my mom won't allow it until I graduate. I honestly don't think I'll be able to wait that long. It's been so hard just this past year that I don't feel like where I'm living is my home. I can't say that it is. For me, it's not my home and it never will be. My step dad, I'm but he's not my real dad and he could never replace him. I don't get along with my mom because we have different views on things. She won't see things the way I see them...so I've learned to just shut my mouth around her. I have no opinion around her now. My step dad is pretty much the same way. He and I see very differently and it gets bad. I don't even try to talk to him anymore because I'm afraid it will turn into a fight. So pretty much, I'm quiet around my house and I have felt like I can't even be myself when I'm at my house. Which is sad. People should feel comfortable where they are living, especially with their family. I don't.

So, what I'm trying to say here is that with all the crap going on with my step dad and my mom, it's gotten worse in many ways these past few months. I can't ever speak my mind. I can't say anything without getting into a fight. I'm always the cause of something. I'm the "rebel" child. I don't do enough for this family. I love my family, I do. I've spent almost 18 years with these people (well not my step family) and yes, we have good moments, but they are starting to become fewer and fewer. I miss things how they used to be. I wish I felt like I still belonged in my family. I feel like what I want to do or things I need, they are always pushed to the back. I'm always the last to get something. And it hurts. I know there are other people who have it worse than me. I'm not trying to seem like my problems are bigger than everyone else's...I'm just trying to let you all understand why I am the way I am in a way. 

That's enough about my family. I don't want to keep talking about the problems we have. Yes. We have issues. But I do love them. I would do anything for my sisters.

This is probably the more sensitive subject and what I originally wanted to talk about. 

I have recently learned of things that have really broken my heart. I never thought that things would be said about me from this particular person. Like I said, I won't name you out for the world to know who you are. But I will be talking about you, and you will know who you are. I'm just going to name her Jackie for everyone else (first name that came to my head). Jackie and I have been friends for a really long time. I've known her for years. We've had our little fights like most little kids would have. As we grew up the fights happened less often and weren't as childish fights. Well this year we got even closer than we have ever been...until she asked to much of me. You see, Jackie asked me to keep a secret from her ex about how she had kissed a guy while she was with her ex. I didn't tell him...even though I should have. She later asked to keep a secret from everyone. The guy who had kissed her while she was with that one ex, yeah he proposed to her. Both of them asked me not to tell anyone. ANYONE! I couldn't tell a soul. They were asking me to hide something I didn't even believe in. I didn't think she should marry him and honestly I don't believe in a girl getting engaged at the age of 17! I'm sorry if you disagree but that is wrong on so many levels to me (my opinion), especially when you can tell that the girl isn't mature enough for that kind of decision. Yes, that sounds rude but a mature girl wouldn't string about 5 different guys along until one of them finally pops the question. I'm sorry but that's not right...under ANY kind of conditions. Well anyways, later on Jackie and the guy who proposed to her finally asked me about my opinion, I told them how I felt. I told them how they had asked too much of me by having me lie to everyone about their relationship. I don't think they realized that EVERYONE always comes to me about finding out Jackie's relationship status because they can't keep up with it. Well I can't either. I told them that I knew too much about Jackie that he doesn't know and I was done with it. I told them I had other things to deal with than having to worry about their drama and relationship. I didn't agree with it so I wanted no part of it. After that, Jackie and I didn't talk. (Oh also, Jackie, I'm sorry but I broke my promise. I couldn't handle it. I told two people...and well now I've told everyone on here...but I just needed to explain my side of things. I hope you can forgive me for that)

Well it gets worse. Jackie and I are on a team together at our school. A dance team. In the dance I choreographed, she was in it. Well after a while, I was getting fed up because Jackie wouldn't come to my rehearsals and her attitude towards my dance seemed like she didn't want to be in it. So I talked to my coach about it and asked if I could switch her and my alternate. My coach told me I could and that she would do the same thing if she was me. Well after I talked to Jackie about the new switch she wouldn't talk to me even more. So we were as far apart as we could possibly be. Well that's all I knew about the story. I knew there had to be something else though because some of my other friends started to distance themselves from me. 

I finally figured out the rest of the story the other day. During the course of the time that we weren't speaking to each other, she was talking to other people about how I was going around calling her a slut, a bitch (sorry I'm just using the word she used) and all these other things that weren't true. I can promise you that I didn't say ANY of that. You want to know what I was saying? I was saying how I was done with your drama, that I didn't want to be a part of it anymore, that I was tired of getting angry at the things you were doing, and I was tired of you being a hypocrite. I never told anyone what you really were doing until it got to the point where I HAD to tell somebody and even then I only told my sister and one of my friends. Nobody else knew, and I can promise you that the two people I told wouldn't go around talking about you. It really hurt to find out that the person who I used to call one of my sisters, one of my closest friends, was the one going around telling people things I never said. Lying to people when I had no chance to defend myself. When my friend told me of the things you said, I felt so hurt because you had started to act like we could be friends again. But I don't see that happening. You have completely lost my trust. I'm sorry, but I have given you way to many chances and you have never changed. So this is the end.

Well okay this really is becoming long and yes, there is more to this story...but those were my main two things. They have been the things that have caused my life to go downhill in certain areas. I have been faking it like I have never before had to do. I have been called a slut, a cheater things I never wanted to be called and I don't get why but I was called those things. I have broken friendships because of it. I have lost a lot of trust in people these past few months because of the things that have happened. I have held back so many tears. I have wanted to break down so many times but I kept going and kept faking it because I didn't want people to think I was being weak. It got to the point though where I just couldn't handle it anymore. So yes, I did breakdown. I'm not looking for pity. I'm looking for understanding.

Teens can be really cruel sometimes. We don't understand that what we say can really damage somebody and change how they view themselves. I was shocked when I heard that people were calling me a slut. The first time I heard someone say I was a slut, I felt horrible. And then I kept hearing it. I heard someone say one time, "Really? Alissa's a slut? What?" ...right in front of me!!!! It never got easier the more I heard it. It only got harder. Harder to hear. Harder to bear. 

There are a lot of things that have been hurting me lately. I have felt so out of place in my own house. I don't feel talented in my drama or my ballroom classes. I feel out of place with about half of my friends. I just feel like a misfit. All the things I’ve been holding inside, it’s starting to kill me. I’m tired of feeling left out, ugly, fat, stupid. People probably will say, “Then just stop thinking you are those things.” It’s not that easy. I have been trying for a while now but it seems to just keep getting worse. More people seem to ignore me each new day. It’s getting hard for me to want to be at school. The thing I go where I can be myself (theatre), I feel like I don’t belong there anymore. Everything just seems to be falling apart. And I pretend that it’s not. I put on that fake smile. I act as if I’m okay, but in reality I’m wishing I didn’t have to live this hell I’m living. Once again, I'm not trying to be some dramatic teenager, but I just want my side to get out there. I don't share it a lot. In fact, I don't share ever. Not the full thing. This still isn't all of it, but it is a start. I just want people to understand why things have been the way they have been. Sometimes I think to myself that I should have learned how to stay silent. All of this could have been prevented if I had learned to keep quiet. Right? Well there's no going back now.

So where do I go from here. I move on. I stand up and say, "Yeah, I have a hard life, but I'm not the only one." I have things to look forward to. I have people I can actually rely on. And that's all I need. I know how to move forward. I know that things will get better. I know that even though I have lost friends, I have friends that will always be there for me. I have people who really do care about me. You can't break me. Only I can do that and I'm not going to do that today. I'm going to keep going, and I will embrace the fact that I'm not perfect and that I will make mistakes and that I will falter...because I'm human. I'm Alissa Lopez and that is my story.

A Time for a Fresh Start...

Well school starts tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M SOOOO EXCITED!!! I can't even explain how excited I am.

My senior year!!! Yeah baby!!! Let's get this year rolling! So this summer has been the most amazing summer of my life. I feel like the Lord knew that me and my ex were going to break up when we did and that he was starting to line up my summer with things so I could move on and start over. It was an easy break up for me and it came as a shock that it came to be that easy but I think it's because I turned to the Lord and I had great friends with me throughout the whole process. I was blessed because of that :)
So this summer I got to participate in BYU's program, SOAR. It was such an amazing experience. I got to meet people outside of the state with the same beliefs as me and it helped me to prepare with college and everything. It was the best week of my life. I wish I could have had another week there it was soooo amazing and I made such great friends while I was there.
I also had drama retreat this summer for everyone on the drama presidency. I'm my school's drama vice president. That was a lot of fun. We went all the way to Bear Lake and stayed for a few days and just had a great time bonding and stuff! It was awesome.
I don't want to bore you all with all the details of my summer. If you want to know....talk to me about it :D
Plus, I should be getting ready for tomorrow! First day of my senior year and I don't want to be late. Haha. Hope you all had an amazing summer and I hope your school year will be the best!!!! I hope tomorrow rocks for all of you. Just have a good attitude and it will be awesome! Love you all!!!!!!!

Some things have an end...but sometimes it's for the best

I know I haven't written in a while. Well a lot has happened since the last time I wrote, but I'm going to focus on one thing.
Yes, we did break up.
It was actually quite a while ago when my old boyfriend and I decided to break things off. I'll be honest, of course it was sad that things didn't work out between us but I think it was for the best. I still care for him, but it isn't the same love and care I used to have for him. I don't regret being with him, I never did and I still don't regret it. I think we were meant to be together at that time and I think we're not supposed to be together at this time. I don't know if we ever will be together again, but whatever happens is for the best and I can say that with a big smile on my face and truly mean it.
I took the breakup a lot better than I thought I would. Didn't cry. Only thought about the whole relationship. My father in Heaven has made it easier for me to be able to deal with the break up. The whole break up came at a time where I was already having a hard time, so I thought I wasn't going to be able to handle having to deal with the break up on top of everything I was going through. I prayed a lot, and I never felt sorry for things having to end. I was happy that he was happy. I think in a way the break up has blessed my life. I was able to start focusing on myself and I still am. I've been working on my grades because they slipped from other things. I've been able to build friendships because of this break up. I know that sounds bad, but it's true. I had friends that didn't agree with my past relationship and we started to drift apart as I continued my relationship. After the break up we were able to re-bond again and it's been great. I love all my friends and I've actually missed a lot of them.
I don't want to make it seem like I never loved my ex. I did love him. I loved him a lot and it was hard to stop feeling those feelings, but I knew I had to let go. I just decided to let go faster than most teens do. I'm still letting go of my feelings, but I'm doing great if I do say so myself. I have such great friends that have always been there for me, making sure I don't feel down on myself. And I know I have a full life ahead of me. As I was thinking about my past relationship, I realized I learned a lot about myself. I can't see myself with my ex right now, which is why I think we aren't supposed to be together anymore. He taught me a lot though. I'll forever be grateful for that.

I just want to say something though. I know there were some people who were so shocked about the break up. Maybe we could have fought through all the problems we were dealing with, but I felt like he didn't want to fight anymore so I wasn't going to force him to fight for something he didn't want. A lot of people didn't realize that there were some quiet issues going on between the two of us. My ex doesn't even know to this day all that I knew. As we were talking that last day, I knew we needed to go separate ways which made the break up easier to bear when it came. A lot of people only saw the good things from my relationship and were really upset over the breakup. I heard people say things like, "If they can't last, what love can?" I want you to realize, love can last. It just wasn't meant to last between me and him. We couldn't do it anymore. There was more to our relationship than you knew. I'm sorry if that's how you felt, but really don't give up on love. Love isn't perfect. It takes a lot of work and both have to want to work on it. With my situation, I just felt like he didn't want to work anymore and I was willing to let him go if it made him feel happy. That's all I wish for him. Happiness and true love. May he one day find it.

Thank you though for all the amazing memories. I will forever have them and I won't regret being with you. Thank you for teaching me so much. You will forever hold a special place in my heart. I wish you luck!

Standing Strong,
Alissa Lopez

A Father's Daughter

So in my English class we had to write a narrative essay on a hardship in our lives. I wanted to share mine to everyone. This is just my rough draft of the essay, so keep that in mind. This tells quite a lot about myself and I've made lots of people cry today as they read through it. I hope you like it. Let me know of your thoughts about it or you can just tell me your own story :)

A Father’s Daughter

By: Alissa Lopez

One day while swinging in the park, I notice a little girl with strawberry blonde curls who is lifted from off the ground, tossed into the air and immediately caught into the arms of her father, safe and sound. I am I hit with a pang of sadness as I realize I can’t have this. I don’t remember what it’s like to go to the park with my father. I don’t remember being tossed into the air. I don’t remember seeing the joy on his face as he held me in his arms. I don’t remember lots of things about my own father, but there is one thing I will never forget.

My mother’s screams paralyze me as I sit in the backseat of my family’s car. I was only five years old and it didn’t really occur to me what was happening and how my life was about to change in a matter of hours. “Someone please help me!” my mother screams out between her sobs to the passing cars, but they just keep passing by as if we never existed. Finally a truck pulls in front of our van. The person inside the truck, for years would be known as “The Good Samaritan” in our family. They take us children into their truck to get us out of the way and to keep us entertained. After some time passes by, a family friend comes to the scene and takes my sisters and me to their house to spend the night. As we were at the home, I can recall telling everybody how my dad was dead. Nobody had told me anything, I already knew.

Red and blue lights shine as police officers question my mother. Two ambulances, along with a fire truck and several police cars surround my mother and my van. The van that still holds my father inside. The paramedics take my father and put him inside one of the ambulances, my mother is close behind. They already knew he was gone.

My father died that day of a heart attack at the age of thirty-seven. My mother was left behind with five girls, the oldest twelve and the youngest just barely a year old. Five girls were robbed of their father that day. I was robbed that day. The most precious thing in my life was ripped away from me in a matter of hours. I am reminded of the pain I hold when I think about how I have had to grow up for over ten years without a father that never tells me he loves me. A father that never tells me how everything will be okay in the end. A father that never catches my tears. A father I never see. When my friends talk about how their fathers have helped them through a certain time, I am reminded about how I don’t have that. Each time I see my friends with their fathers I am reminded about how I don’t have that. Every Father’s Day I am reminded that my father is gone and I am once again taken back to the moment inside my van that dreadful day.

As I sit there in that swing at the park, watching that little girl with her father, I am reminded of a happier time. The only memory I have of my father before the day he died. There is laughter and a knowing of being loved. That’s when my mind starts to wander. My father’s death has brought me closer to him in ways I never imagined. The best days are the days when I am told I hold a trait of my father. It’s the one time I feel connected to him. My father’s death has given me strength. I have grown from it, and still continue to grow from it. I am my father’s daughter, and even though he has passed away, he continues to teach me, through his death.

The New Year Always Brings New Changes

After getting everything out last week, I'm doing better :) Thanks for all the advice and for all the support everyone. So as you all know, it's now 2013! CRAZY! This year I'm going to be 18!!!!!!! What the! Time is just flying by! Alright so I'll tell you some of my goals for this year...
-Working out more (hopefully meaning that I'll start doing Zumba again!)
-Try out for my school's ballroom team for next year
-Do a big kind of act of service each month
-Get a job
-Get my license (Actually my goal is to get that before Heather comes back home from her mission)
-Go to SOAR
-Figure out and apply to colleges I want to go to (scary thought!)
-Get a car hopefully...
-Go to Texas for vacation
-Become more organized than I already am
-Prioritize my life better
-Learn to play a song on the guitar, flute, and piano (different songs)
-Do something I've been afraid to do
AND....
-Get contacts.

Those are just some of my goals...we'll see which ones I can accomplish this year. This is going to be a HUGE and important year in my life. Let's make it a good one!

Oh and this is a picture of my new hair...yes I dyed it. First time. And I love it.

DYED MY HAIR!!!!